Tuesday, March 10, 2015

+++STITCHES+++

CAUTION! A FEW BLOODY CHIN PICTURES BELOW!
Just a warning in case you are a bit squeamish.


Friday February 20th: 
We were getting ready to go on a walk
to the park and Mabel hopped on her bike and started pedaling towards the
mailbox. I had Elliott in the stroller and was coming down our driveway.
I saw her turn her head and she must have twisted her handlebars
or something crazy because she went flying over the top of her bike.
She has crashed a few times before but never this bad.
I ran over to her and the second I saw her chin I knew
we would be heading to Urgent Care.
She actually wasn't crying too bad, she was more upset
about her little pinky which got kind of jammed on the sidewalk.
I got a paper towel for her chin, gave her ibuprofen, called Nate,
and ran Elliott over to my neighbor's house.

Waiting at Urgent Care...I knew it would be stitches.
I just knew.
But that doesn't mean I didn't pray 
begging they could just use glue. 

She was sad but such a trooper.

Pretty good gash. :(


Post stitches. I initially thought it was four
stitches but it ended up just being three.
It felt like they put in twenty.
She was brave but it was so hard. After
the numbing shot she just wanted to go home.
She just kept begging to go home.
The stitching process was awful.
I feel sick just thinking about it. 
I had to help hold her down while trying 
to calm and soothe her. In the middle of it all
she managed to yell one word, "HOT!"
She was sweating so bad from being so upset and
crying. I hurried and took off her socks and boots
and started blowing cool air on her neck.
When they finished she just kept saying,
"That was so hard mom. It was so so hard."
She just wanted me to hold her.
I scooped her up and told her how much
I loved her and tried not to cry. It was pretty traumatic 
for both of us.

I knew of a few things that would cheer her
up: a BIG balloon and some frozen yogurt.


After she went to bed I sat on the couch and cried. I had been
keeping it together for her all afternoon and finally could let
it out! I know I can't control things like this happening, 
but dang it I wish I could!

The next morning when we changed the bandaid:

We Skyped with my mom and she asked Mabel if she 
planned to get back on her bike after her chin got better.
Mabel said, "No, I am taking a break. Just for 60 years."
Sounds perfect to me!! How about we put you in a bubble
for those 60 years too?

Several of her friends came by with cards and notes,
it was really sweet!


More friends came over with cards and a cozy
polka dot blanket! So nice!

We started alternating the way the band-aid was facing 
because it was irritating her skin.
She would randomly ask,
"So did they sew me?"


Five days later we went to our regular
pediatrician to have the stitches taken out.
Daddy came with us for moral support.

Plus we threw Elliott into the mix since 
he needed his 9 month check up!

She was waiting patiently with her dum dum sucker
but when Dr. Hurley looked at the stitches he 
said they needed a few more days!
Ugh. I just wanted it to be over. 
So did she.

A few days later Nate went in to work late
one morning so I could take Mabel back
to Dr. Hurley. This time I came armed with a 
HUGE bunny ring pop.

She was loving that thing.
Grins for days.

Until it was time to get the stitches out.
However, it was not nearly as bad as getting them in.
Plus, Dr. Hurley taped the stitches to a popsicle 
stick so we can keep them forever.
Because I loved this experience so much I want
to always remember it. NOT.

The next day she wanted to ride her bike to her 
friend's birthday party a few houses down.
I wanted to say no. I had been saying no when she
asked me all week. I told her she had to wait until the 
stitches were out. Now they were.

She got on her bike, kissed it, and said, 
"I missed you bikey."

A few days after the stitches were taken out:

Two weeks later:

Her little chin is healing so well! Aren't our bodies
incredible? She now gets to join the under the chin
scar club!




5 comments:

Lindsey said...

I am a proud member of that club! I showed Mabel when she and Nafy came to Golden Corral. That picture of her in the dr office just after stitches is the saddest picture ever! It looks great now though!

Sarah said...

Lol...saving stitches on a stick?! Gag.
Thank you for writing out the whole traumatic event! I also like getting glimpses into the mind of a mommy. (Like with you wanting to cry on the couch, or wanting to say no to her riding the bike but having to let her go again.) The poor little dear! How is she so brave to get right back out there again!

The Tew Clan said...

Oh, I'm so sorry you both had to go through that. I hate to say, I totally understand cause we've been there a few times! Natalie's second set of stitches were similar to yours. Her face was covered by the paper and she couldn't breath very well and was so hot from fighting. It was very traumatic for us both! And, it doesn't get easier either! It looks good now though :)

The Naylor Family said...

Reading that post and seeing those pictures made we want to cry all over again. Poor Mabel! It's so hard being a Mom and having to be strong when stuff like that happens! When you broke your arm, I almost died!!! I'm sure Elliott will be a regular at the ER the way he's going!

Allison said...

So sad! Her face after the stitches breaks my heart! Glad she's doing better and wasn't afraid to get back on her bike. Hope you're doing better! I know exactly how you feel, so hard to see your kids in pain.